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1. What are you most passionate about?
I am passionate about treating animals fairly and humanely, I am passionate about self-improvement and my personal growth, and I am passionate about my family. [Please note: Your kids are welcome!]

2. What are the THREE things for which you are MOST thankful?
1. My ability to love - my heart is very open
2. My good health - which I encourage by eating healthy meals and taking a variety of food supplements
3. My wonderful family - particularly my sister, with whom I have a very loving relationship

3. Following are 3 Relationship Strengths from your Personality Profile:
Jay is socially poised and people-oriented.
Jay tends to work hard to make sure that other people are happy.
Jay tends to motivate others toward positive goals.

4. Other than your parents, who has been the most influential person in your life and why?
My ex-wife, for her giving nature and for her warmth and compassion towards other people. And there have been others too: My high school math teacher, for encouraging me to question authority. My first girlfriend, with whom I learned how to kiss :))). And my father - for inspiring me to "keep probing" in my search for the essential Truth. I owe a great debt of thanks to each and every one of them who I will never forget.

5. The four things your friends say about you are:
Good listener

6. What are three of your BEST life-skills?
Creating romance in a relationship
Communicating my innermost thoughts and feelings
Achieving personal goals

7. What is the most important quality that you are looking for in another person?
THE most important quality would be GOOD COMMUNICATION - especially the ability to communicate your feelings! And there's more: I'd like to meet a woman who looks for all the things we can agree on; who can let go of materialism and enjoy the things in life that really matter; who appreciates a man's kindness and understanding; who hasn't lost touch with her gentle sensitivity; who loves to hug and kiss; whose appreciation of the world goes beyond the five senses; and last but not least, who understands that love is as much about giving as it is about receiving.

8. Other than your appearance, what is the first thing that people notice about you?
Charisma - something that radiates from within - which is often described as "the twinkle in my eyes"

9. What is the ONE thing that people DON'T notice about you right away that you WISH they WOULD?
My depth of character - cultivated by rich life experience, my traveling to countries all over the world, and my ability to communicate with a wide range of people coming from all walks of life.

10. How do you typically spend your leisure time?
Walking along the beach enjoying the fresh ocean breeze as it gently sweeps through my hair, reading books which help me stay in touch with the things in life that are really important, creative writing, talking to my friends, cooking something delicious in my warm and cozy kitchen, browsing book stores and hunting for book treasures online, world travel, music, and quiet relaxation.

11. What are five things that you "can't live without?"
a. Love and affection
b. A connection with my family
c. My three cats, who are like children to me
d. Good communication with a woman I feel close to
e. A soulful connection to life

12. Describe the last book that you read and enjoyed. What was it about? What did you like most about it?
"Ask and It Is Given - Learning to Manifest Your Desires" by Esther and Jerry Hicks. One of the greatest books ever written about affirmations and how to live the joyous and fulfilling life you deserve.

13. Describe one thing about yourself that only your best friends know.
I am studying the practice of Reiki, with the thought that I might share this gift with others someday.

14. Is there any additional information you would like your matches to know about you?
I'm a relationship-oriented guy - strictly monogamous - and I'm looking for a woman who has a nice blend of spirituality and feminine sexuality. Maybe the universe will surprise me - are you out there, looking for me too? :)


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"Thank you so much for the awesome coaching session! I got so much clarity and focus about where I want to go and how to get there. I just got off the phone with my girlfriend and told her about it, and she commented immediately on the excitement in my voice! Truly amazing!"


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"Thank you infinitely for the phenomenal person you are, for your spiritual diligence, and for the unparalleled support you give me."


"I am overflowing with gratitude for your presence/presents in my life. The session with you last night was transformational. Every time we have a conversation, I emerge with even MORE awe and respect for you, for who you are, for what you have already contributed..."


"Great Session!!! Thanks"


"I hope I will get to know you in some way since I have heard such amazing things about you."


"Thank you... and I really do love how you show up in this world. Thank you for standing your ground for the best of the best experience... for all possibility and choosing the utmost. I'm so grateful for your presence in my experience... you let me know that everything is possible."


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"Great call Jay, I am so impressed at the lightness and trust in this session. You really seemed comfortable with everything that came up and created a deep level of support. You are a powerful coach and ask deep questions. I also appreciate the creative way you express yourself so clearly. Great session."


"Great work today Jay. I am touched by your masterful confidence. Awesome!"


"Thanks Jay! You are so wonderful!!!"